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Monday
Feb182013

Oldest City, Best Balcony

"I just hope we can get a room with a balcony."

That's what she said. So you know I had to make it so, and it turned out to be one of my favorite balconies in the history of balconies, which is saying a lot.

Like you, perhaps, I have a long personal list of beloved hotel balconies. Sitting on a balcony, watching the world go by is one of my favorite things. Oceans, pools, vacation life below, all in glorious tilt shift.

Street balconies can be the most intense balconies, because you are usually close enough to the action to feel dangerously a part of it.  People can call up to you. You can trade beads for favors. But they are still a wall or a railing away, there is some distance real or perceived. The world unfolds before you and with you, but it feels like love that is just slightly out of your reach. Balconies are sweet longing. You feel like calling out all your feelings to the courtyard like Juliet. You want to walk out to the corner store just so you can walk back to the hotel and call up to your lover by her new name, Stella. 

Stella!

That's the thing about balconies. We carry a personal balcony history, and then there's the shared history of balconies, window seats and French doors. We die to sing Don't Cry for my Argentina when we step on a balcony. Or is that just me? The truth is, I never left you!

And still, despite the possibility of an ensuing monologues or a musical number, she wanted to share a balcony with me. Lucky me! So I found the best one. It was just the right mix of private and public, near the busy street life and right on the water. A bit of everything, and still a private bubble away from it all.

It's at least the best balcony on the north-eastern coast of Florida, at the gay-friendly Hilton in St. Augustine, which is in downtown St. Augustine, south of Jacksonville and north of Daytona Beach. There actually aren't too many rooms downtown that face the ocean in that sweet old city because St. Augustine dodged the Florida overbuilt-with-condos bullet, and the Hilton is a small, wonderful little hotel that feels much like a B&B, but better, with real hotel service and privacy. 

 

The city is old and beautiful and rich like a wedding rhyme: Spanish forts and settlements, new art and just enough development, borrowed myths and magic, and blue, blue water. Some of my favorite Florida coastline is found here, and it is nothing at all like the Daytona Beach area. There is a lot to do in St. Augustine, to be sure, but still also a quiet refuge. 

Or you can watch it all go by, in lovely lovely 3D, from your balcony. Which is pretty much what we happily did.

That's not true, we did leave the balcony. A few times. The beautiful beach in Anastasia Beach State Park. Cobblestone walks downtown. A tiny pilgrimage to The Columbia Restaurant, a Florida treasure. [I love being in an old restaurant and falling deep in conversation and then the gueridon service trolley is rolled tableside and the waiter is now inside your bubble, there the three of you are, an unfinished sentence held open and now serving as parenthesis for the waiter's showy display of ingredients for salad or flambé or some other throwback preparation underway just for you. We had Sangria de Cava, made with Spanish brandy, orange liqueur, fruit and a tilt-shift-sized bottle of champagne. So good, we later called our server back for a second round. Or was it third? Best part of staying downtown, after the balcony, is walking home.]

But mostly, it was all about that balcony. Watching the bridge open. The carriages. The happy people. Even the rain was glorious.

 

So I'm proclaiming the balcony in St. Augustine my favorite. I'm happy to continue to seek out hotel balconies, just in case there is a better one to be found. I'll never turn down a chance to practice my Evita. It's just that now all new balconies have a tough act to follow, but I want them to keep trying. Dear Hotel Balconies of Happiness: I kept my promise, don't keep your distance. 

  
Wednesday
Feb132013

SRSLY Happy

We've made a ritual of going to Lake Ella's Farmer's Market every Wednesday afternoon. We buy some locally-grown greens, eggs, maybe turnips. I bought myself a big jar of local Tupelo honey last week on my birthday, liquid gold, and it makes me feel rich like Richie Rich. Sometimes we grab pitas and hummus from the gorgeous Pita Queen of Thomasville, Georgia (I dream about her pillow-pitas, you can also get them at New Leaf Grocery.) Then we have a coffee at Black Dog and then take a walk around the lake. If we're lucky the swing dancers are mid-lesson when we pass the American Legion Hall windows and we can gawk for a few minutes, picking up a step for free on the lawn like jitterbug Peeping Toms. This week Bob from SRSLY Chocolate was there, helping Valentines be sweet to each other. SRSLY good, good, good. I like you this winter, Tallahassee.

Friday
Feb082013

Giveaway: It's Girl Scout Cookie Day!

It's Girl Scout Cookie Time!

I was a Girl Scout. I wish I still had my sash. Badges on the front AND back, oh yeah, I made it happen. I still remember getting my first guidebook and paging through it. I was going to be able to DO ALL OF THESE THINGS? Those were really good times.

Girl Scout Cookies are hands down the most delightful way to support an excellent cause. Because face it, you'd buy Thin Mints and Tagalongs if the money went to the Illuminati or The Pet Rock Preservation Foundation. Because there is magic is those tasty, tasty cookies. Trefoils Powers Activate!

The fact the money supports a fantastic organization is icing on the...cookies. Cookie sales make wonderful things happen for local girl scout troups, like camping trips and troop outings, with girls learning business management skills all throughout the sales program. So maybe that is part of the minty magic after all. Whatever it is, it works. 

I know you'll be buying some as soon as you can. If you are in New York City, you're lucky, because the Girl Scouts have partnered with Sweetery NYC Food Truck to have pop-up stores. The rest of us can find them in our neighborhoods or online. Just follow your nose (or app) to the that distinctive green Thin Mints package. 

  • Download the new Girl Scout cookie iPhone or Android app to find cookie sales.
  • Check the route of the Girl Scout Cookie Truck as it makes its way through New York City.
  • Check out the one-day-only Facebook contest on February 8 with a TwitterPinterest, and Instagram integration about why you'd recommend buying #onemorebox.

OR...maybe get lucky here. The GSUSA hooked me up with 5 boxes in celebration of Girl Scout Day to pass on to a lucky winner here. Want 5 boxes?  You will feel so rich! You'll have a party in a box to keep, hide, share or donate. Fill this out if you want in, and I'll pull a winning name on Monday.

Update: The Giveaway entry period is closed and the winner has been notified. Hope you all get your cookies! My Thin Mints are already gone, including the Freezer Boxes.
Wednesday
Jan302013

Giveaway: BlogHer Voices of the Year Anthology

Being included in the BlogHer '12 Voices of the Year anthology was an honor and a sweet, happy thing last year.

The book was published in partnership with Open Road Media, and I've discovered I love reading essays gathered in a wonderful ebook instead of reading them through disparate hyperlinks online. The book created focus and sanctuary, a little room where stories are held knitted together. It's fascinating to think about how different formats might change our relationships with texts, or with ourselves as readers. I found out that reading it made me want to read more offline, and something about it --maybe the diverse content from so many great bloggers, or maybe the format-- made me want to write more. 

If you'd like your own writing to be considered for the next BlogHer book, you're in luck. There's a call for submissions up for their second book which will be focused on writing about food: ROOTS: Where Food Comes From & Where It Takes Us. I love that topic. Food is memory, identity, politics, friend & and enemy, fuel & fortune. Rich fields for those roots. I can't wait to read it. Deadline for writers is February 11, so don't wait. Is that a madeleine in your pocket or are you already clicking over there to learn more about it?

But wait, don't leave before entering a giveaway for Book One! Open Road is letting me share a Voices of the Year book with a reader, so if you'd like an ebook copy of your own, simply throw your name into this Google Form hat, and I'll pick a name by random next Monday. If you win, you'll be notified by email. 

So give it a go, or just nab a copy for yourself at Open Road

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Update: The Giveaway has closed and a winner was selected at random. Open Roads will contact her to get her a copy of the book! Thank you all.  

 

Sunday
Jan272013

Magnolias are the opposite of SAD

I'm obsessed with our Magnolias this week. This is the only snow we get in Tallahassee, their thick, waxy petals piling on the winter grass. I love the thickness of hearty bloomers; I'll take a grip of tulips any day. Do you know how long it takes for a Japanese Magnolia to first bloom from the day a prehistoric-looking seed pod is planted? It can take 15 years. 15 years of growth,  investment, reinvestment, winter after winter. Then finally huge grand impossible blooms shaped like chalices that show you spring is right here, even in winter, it's snow in the sky on a warm day, it's right here, both. Huge petals that make a sound when they drop. Children are like that. Mine are blooming so long after they started, so long, before they were growing and now they are blooming. It's wild, this warm winter day, how quiet, absolutely pin-drop quiet everything can be until suddenly it's not.